I wrote about this last year. I am certainly easy to read. I am obviously not a girl. But, people say stuff just to put you on the spot:

As I wrote last year:

"I already know this is an annoying post. but i really am interested in why some gay guys (very few) are so very hostile to me. i am waiting in line at starbucks on 18th street, near castro, when this table of six older gay guys start harassing me by saying stuff behind my back just loud enough for me to hear. the first is like, 'is that a girl or a guy?' (I wish I'd turned around and said, "I was wondering the same about you.) then the other is like, 'its a guy, you can always tell because they wear make-up.' then they start comment on my butt. one says something about my "large ass" then the others start taking about 'largess,' in silly little comments. this is not the first time gay guys have put me down. i find it amazing. i am 5'10", active, a former marine.it takes a lot of moxie to be insulting someone who can kick your ass. most of the guys that do the insulting look like they've never been in a fist fight. where the hell do they get off doing that? and why is it alright to be insulting me, when most of them have been subject to harassment about their orientation? What is going on here? "

I have been read in public on two different occasions. One time a gentleman said that he is glad that there are people that are brave enough to be themselves and the other a lady said never give up on being yourself.